Sunday, February 05, 2012

Okey Lang Maging Single sa Valentine’s


Whenever February 14 comes, couples enjoy their selves dating one another. Some celebrate it and make it unforgettable. Everyone seems to be very happy. But behind the scenes were people who wished that time passed by without them noticing what the world had been doing and celebrating. Who are they? The singles.

At the start of February, love is felt in the air. Couples (marriage or in the process) were excited to plan and prepare for the Valentines. Parties, concerts and dates are seen everywhere. It has been a tradition for Filipinos to celebrate the so-called "couples day" since the western had introduced it. Lovapalooza, the longest and most popular event every February, features couples kissing each other for about half an hour (!!!).

However, contrary to what the world thought, it wasn't a problem if you are single in Valentines. Everyone can always enjoy February 14 even without a partner. Here are some ways every single men and women can do to still enjoy the day meant for couples.

1. Family Dating
A very unique way to know your relatives more and to spend time great time with your family is family dating. You can invite your brother, sister or any of your cousins. This could promote closeness not only with your siblings but also with your cousins.

2. Date your friends.
 Lucky you if you are the only guy/girl in your circle of friends. You can date everyone in the group, but I doubt they would permit that (especially the girls). However, friendships can always enjoy group dating. You can invite your barkadas in a gimmick or watch movies together. You can also spend time in karaoke bars or amusement parks. And girls, let the boys do the spending.

3. Hang outs and nights out
Often times, people (especially boys) engaged their selves in night outs and find men, women, even gays and take them out. Well, I'm not encouraging that but of course men and women can still do hang outs and night outs even without engaging to a wild party in a bar or clubs. Girls can enjoy each others' company by talking with their love life, secret crush and other girly stuffs like that. While boys can watch movies (not porn huh!) or have a heart-to-heart talk about their heart breaks and their most serious relationship (if there is).

4. Date yourself
Dating is more fun in the Philippines, especially when you choose to unwind and relax in the beautiful places of the country. You can visit different places in the Philippines while savoring your favorite cuisines. Don't be bother to look like a fool dating and travelling alone. This a free country, and who knows? You might cross with the person you're meant to be with on that trip.

5. Date God
What's more special and memorable than dating LOVE itself? God is love so why not reflect for awhile and date Him. You might be surprised by what you will learn and what you will get from Him. Remember, He is love so He'll never make your Valentine’s Day lonely.

There you have it ka-journals! Who says Valentine’s Day is only for couples? So if you're single, be proud to say on February 14 that you're happy being single.  Having read my notes, I doubt if you're still lonely this Valentines. Have a happy heart!!!!

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