Showing posts with label valentine's day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label valentine's day. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

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Valentine's All Over the World


Valentine’s Day, as we all know is a celebration of love and romance. However, not only in the Philippines is Valentine’s celebrated. Different countries all over the world commemorate it in different ways depending on their culture.


In Japan, it is only the women who give presents (mainly chocolates) to men; Japanese women are usually too shy to express their love. Therefore, Valentine's Day was thought to be a great opportunity to let women express their feelings. It also a custom that smart chocolate companies spread to boost their sales and it has been very successful. Now, the chocolate companies in Japan sell more than half of their annual sales during the week before Valentine's Day. 


In Korea, couples wear same shirts or known as the “couple shirt” in Valentine’s Day to show how much they love each other. In the United States, Valentine’s Day is mainly a day catered to females. Men are responsible for planning dates, getting flowers, getting the right gift, etc.


People in South Africa totally indulge themselves in the African culture and art to celebrate the occasion of Valentine. Be it an old man of 60 or a young lass of 16, the joy of celebrating love is same in everybody. South Africans as well as tourists attend huge balls where they match their dancing steps and flow in the Valentine mood with different alcoholic beverages. 


Africans also like to visit wildlife parks and sanctuaries with their friends and families. Many other events like river rafting, mountaineering amidst the exotic islands are main attraction of the day. Luxurious resorts give the most enthralling view and rated as one of the best place to spend a romantic evening.

Here in the Philippines, what makes Valentines more fun?

5. Speed-dating and blind dates. Blind dates originated in. Basically, blind date is about two people who never met each other but go on together in a date. Well, it might be a little scary and risky, but this is still something you will enjoy especially when you're single.


4. Promos for couples. These are popular in the Philippines. Famous indeed, that as soon as January 31, you can already see different posters and advertisement about joining a contest that will make your Valentine celebration incredibly and romantically memorable. If you think you have the best love story then you can join these contests. You might win and have the most exciting and special date this Valentines.



3. Kasalang-bayan. Actually, these are more popular in June, but there are some government and non-government agencies who conduct these events meant for financially-challenged couples. This wedding expo lets the public to witness a number of partners exchanged "I do's".


2. Concerts and Movies. Every Valentine's, celebrities and artists would really prepare something that their couple fans would enjoy. Pre-valentine concerts are set where couples can enjoy their date while watching the show. Movie watching is one of the traditional thing whenever a couple dates so movie producers give them a treat as they offer a wonderful love story for their supporters to enjoy.


1. Pick-up lines. "Siguro dati kang ex-convict, kasi pinasok mo na nga ang utak ko, ninakaw mo pa ang puso ko." Cheesy. Pick-up lines have long been introduced in the Philippines. However, it just became popular because of Boy Pick-Up from GMA's longest running gag show, Bubble Gang. Though, pick up lines were not really funny, “the ka-corny-han” of it makes it more acceptable and sweet. I'm just wondering how a girl would react after she was given a pick-up line by his suitor.


0. Flowers and chocolates. How will you know that Valentine’s is arriving? It's when bouquets of flowers and boxes of chocolates were seen everywhere. They say Valentine's is not completely felt once you haven't received any of these two. Well, good thing I've bought one for myself.


Now that's something interesting about Philippine Valentine’s Day. It's not really different from other countries but it is something people would really enjoy. 

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Do couples need to celebrate Valentine's Day?



"Ang Valentine's Day ang panahon ng pagbibigay ng walang kwentang mga regalo pero sweet." A junior jock was saying on a radio when I opened it last night. True enough, from flowers to chocolates, these usual gifts given every Valentines won't last. Flowers would soon dried up and chocolates would soon be flushed. And so why celebrate?

Celebrating Valentine's Day has been a usual act for couples. It is a special time for them to show their love for each other. For some, Valentine's Day means another year of love to celebrate. Girls would always look ahead to this special event and want it to be sweeter, memorable and special. However, there are people (mostly guys) who don’t look at this as something that should be celebrated. For them, you can always show your love anytime and any season. Celebration is not a must, however most people find it sweet and romantic to celebrate on that day. For me, celebration is not really needed but of course, being a woman, I can’t say that I don’t want to celebrate important occasions like that. As what they say, only once a year Valentines arrive.

Well, the origins of Valentine's Day trace back to the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia. Held on February 15, Lupercalia honored the gods Lupercus and Faunus, as well as the legendary founders of Rome, Romulus and Remus. In addition to a bountiful feast, Lupercalia festivities are alleged to have included the pairing of young women and men. Men would draw women's names from a box, and each couple would be paired until next year's celebration.

While this pairing of couples set the tone for today's holiday, it wasn't called "Valentine's Day" until a priest named Valentine came along. Valentine, a romantic at heart, disobeyed Emperor Claudius II's verdict that soldiers remain bachelors. Claudius handed down this decree believing that soldiers would be distracted and unable to concentrate on fighting if they were married or engaged. Valentine defied the emperor and secretly performed marriage ceremonies. As a result of his defiance, Valentine was put to death on February 14.

After Valentine's death, he was named a saint. As Christianity spread through Rome, the priests moved Lupercalia from February 15 to February 14 and renamed it St. Valentine's Day to honor Saint Valentine. Since then, February 14 has been given to couples and people who are in a special relationship.

After reading the romantic and sacrificial story of Valentine, indeed, sweetness is famous every Valentine's Day. You can do simple things and yet, sweet. You can give little effort and yet, made someone feel special. You don't need to buy an expensive jewelry or date your partner in a fine dining restaurant. Because at the end of the day, it's the memory that matters not those gifts. And you can always show to your loved ones how much they meant to you even if it’s not Valentines. Ultimately, it's neither the gifts nor the celebration that matters; it's the love you give. After all, Valentines is about love and romance. Have a happy Valentine's.


Sunday, February 05, 2012

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Okey Lang Maging Single sa Valentine’s


Whenever February 14 comes, couples enjoy their selves dating one another. Some celebrate it and make it unforgettable. Everyone seems to be very happy. But behind the scenes were people who wished that time passed by without them noticing what the world had been doing and celebrating. Who are they? The singles.

At the start of February, love is felt in the air. Couples (marriage or in the process) were excited to plan and prepare for the Valentines. Parties, concerts and dates are seen everywhere. It has been a tradition for Filipinos to celebrate the so-called "couples day" since the western had introduced it. Lovapalooza, the longest and most popular event every February, features couples kissing each other for about half an hour (!!!).

However, contrary to what the world thought, it wasn't a problem if you are single in Valentines. Everyone can always enjoy February 14 even without a partner. Here are some ways every single men and women can do to still enjoy the day meant for couples.

1. Family Dating
A very unique way to know your relatives more and to spend time great time with your family is family dating. You can invite your brother, sister or any of your cousins. This could promote closeness not only with your siblings but also with your cousins.

2. Date your friends.
 Lucky you if you are the only guy/girl in your circle of friends. You can date everyone in the group, but I doubt they would permit that (especially the girls). However, friendships can always enjoy group dating. You can invite your barkadas in a gimmick or watch movies together. You can also spend time in karaoke bars or amusement parks. And girls, let the boys do the spending.

3. Hang outs and nights out
Often times, people (especially boys) engaged their selves in night outs and find men, women, even gays and take them out. Well, I'm not encouraging that but of course men and women can still do hang outs and night outs even without engaging to a wild party in a bar or clubs. Girls can enjoy each others' company by talking with their love life, secret crush and other girly stuffs like that. While boys can watch movies (not porn huh!) or have a heart-to-heart talk about their heart breaks and their most serious relationship (if there is).

4. Date yourself
Dating is more fun in the Philippines, especially when you choose to unwind and relax in the beautiful places of the country. You can visit different places in the Philippines while savoring your favorite cuisines. Don't be bother to look like a fool dating and travelling alone. This a free country, and who knows? You might cross with the person you're meant to be with on that trip.

5. Date God
What's more special and memorable than dating LOVE itself? God is love so why not reflect for awhile and date Him. You might be surprised by what you will learn and what you will get from Him. Remember, He is love so He'll never make your Valentine’s Day lonely.

There you have it ka-journals! Who says Valentine’s Day is only for couples? So if you're single, be proud to say on February 14 that you're happy being single.  Having read my notes, I doubt if you're still lonely this Valentines. Have a happy heart!!!!

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